Running Scared~Sarah Palin and America
Wednesday, January 12th, 2011I just reviewed Sarah Palin’s comments about the Arizona shooting which she issued today.
As a Mental Health Professional, I note predictable patterns relating to the rhetoric that has engulfed this country over the last few years. The most noteworthy is the apparent internal processes, or lack of them from the so-called “right wing.” Virtually all of them appear incapable of meaningful introspection. They also seem incapable of comprehending the difference between “vigorous political debate” and abusive bullying.
I was watching Anderson Cooper two nights ago, when David Guergen was on with Dana Loesch (”Lash”). Though I don’t always agree with Mr. Guergen’s beliefs, I respect his intelligence and perspectives. Ms. Loesch was quickly contentious, interrupting him with “I reject that” and other bullying tactics that folks in her “camp” repeatedly utilize.
As a therapist, I have learned that all of us are imperfect, all of us make mistakes, and all of us are learning. I’ve also learned that we need each other, particularly the folks with whom we disagree. It is their perspectives that help us form and balance ourselves and society. As a Christian (Episcopalian) I was formed to try to remember that how I treat those with whom I most disagree and “The least of these” is the measure of my character.
But what has happened in the body politic over the last 20 years, has been an ever increasing level of bullying, coupled with the inability of those doing the bullying to engage in genuine or meaningful insights of self or respectful dialogue with others.
These folks are often incapable of seeing any cause and effect with regard to their own actions, instead choosing to pull a martyr card, and deflect back any meaningful introspection at the person they perceive as the enemy.
Ms. Palin’s response to all of this is predictable, because she has never shown any ability to embrace her own deficiencies of character. We never see her demonstrating any self deprecating humor (** note below explaining what this means), she appears incapable of laughing at herself, or any of her beliefs. The lack of that kind of humor is the first sign that something is wrong. And it is central to bullying. We have become a nation of bullies, and like a train wreck, it is tragically fascinating to watch.
There are two notable historic philosophies that emerged in the early 20th century as a response to the rise of communism. One was Fascism, which remains one of those things that few would openly embrace. The other less discussed response is Objectivism, whose principle advocate was novelist Ayn Rand (who was also a Republican). There are marked similarities in both, most notably, a significant difficulty with any dissenting perspectives, and a personal difficulty on the part of their devotees to engage in introspection, even with significant others. They specifically celebrate personal independence in a manner that is synonymous with that of the “Lone Wolf.”
My philosophy, in essence, is the concept of man as a heroic being, with his own happiness as the moral purpose of his life, with productive achievement as his noblest activity, and reason as his only absolute.
—Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged]
Ms. Rand quietly developed a generation of followers amongst baby boomers and their children, by name, and by actions. My observations over the years is that these are folks who disdain any connection to others in society who they deem as “less than”, and often have little patience with those they perceive as “losers.”
In political discussions with conservative friends over the years, her name pops up regularly, as they quote her like an evangelical might quote the bible. The common thread in all of these interactions is a patent inability on the part of the person quoting her (or the persons who quote the bible for that matter) to engage in introspections about their own inadequacies, character flaws, etc. They do not like to talk about their own pain, they do not like to talk about the pain of others. These folks can’t even share their vulnerabilities with friends or family members. They appear to be people who have difficulty forgiving themselves for their own inadequacies, or the inadequacies of others. They have a lot of secrets.
The deeply spiritual 12 Step recovery programs such as AA, NA, etc. have an expression within their ranks that I have found (as a clinician) to be absolutely correct, “We are only as sick as our secrets.”
I hope that while we are discussing the mental health of Mr. Loughner, or others like him, we can begin to discuss the mental health of our society, because it is that society that helped create these people, and in that regard, we are all culpable. If we cannot own that reality, and engage in meaningful introspection collectively, then we perpetuate the problem.
Edward Garren, MA, LMF
** Note on “humor” It’s difficult to explain the “humor” I meant. The best thing I can try to say is that it’s NOT planned or contrived (like the TV programs that are scripted), but more from the heart, and about her heart.
For example, most public figures in interviews will talk about their personal struggles with their fears. Barbra Streisand has talked about her paralyzing fears of performing, Barack Obama talked about his internal doubts in his early days as a community organizer, Franklin Roosevelt shared his struggles with polio, etc. Even Bill and Hillary Clinton talked about their struggles in their marriage.
People like Sarah don’t appear capable of doing that. She has pointedly avoided any contact with the press unless it is scripted and that alone is cause of serious concern about her. We have yet to see similar conversations from most other current commentators. While Glenn Beck has shared that he is a recovering alcoholic, his tone and style are more akin to a “dry drunk” (someone who is no longer drinking, but is not really working the 12 Steps of recovery which “demand rigorous honesty” about self). Rush Limbaugh is another one, who once his revelations about his drug addiction were revealed, has never shown any tone of humility or forgiveness since. This sort of behavior is simply not synonymous with the spiritual path that is a necessary element of “recovery.”
And because there are so many of them in the public eye, as icons in society, they contribute to the creation of an attitude about personal humanity, that resonates with people like Mr. Loughner, who then take the same processes off the deep end.
In other words, if people in the public eye don’t talk about their own personal journey with self forgiveness and forgiving others, we don’t model or teach that behavior to our followers. I think this is an element of why we have become such an intolerant nation. In our highly competitive, “winner take all” culture, we are all contributors to our current mess, and we will only change it by taking personal responsibility for it in our daily interactions with other people.
While this exists on both sides of the political spectrum, I don’t hear the level of personal vitriol coming from the “left” that spews constantly out of of folks like Rush Limbaugh, Glen Beck, Bill O’Riley and Sarah Palin, as well as countless “Conservative” commentators on TV.
Since a large portion of the country gets most, if not all of it’s news and commentary from these folks now, and reject more genuinely “balanced” news outlets like CNN, as being “liberal, we have further polarized the country.



